[Last updated: 22 March 2022]
Johan Friederich Stembel (Great-grandfather)
Frederick Stembel (Grandfather)
John Stembel (Father)
Joseph V. S. Stembel
JOSEPH VAN SWEARINGEN STEMBEL (1828-1920)
Mary and Joseph Stembel
Joseph was born in Middletown, Maryland, on July 28, 1828. He was the youngest of John and Elenor's 12 children (only six of whom survived to adulthood). Joseph was named after his mother's father, General Joseph Van Swearingen(1) (Van was his middle name rather than part of his surname). When Joseph was about 3 years old his family moved to Ohio, eventually settling on a farm southwest of West Liberty in Champaign County. Growing up, he attended private subscription schools (free public education did not yet exist).(2)
When Joseph was 22, he married Mary Magdalena Ziegler. Mary was born in Perry County, Ohio, the eldest of eight children. Her parents moved to Champaign County when she was 2 years old.(3) The Ziegler farm was located very close to the Stembel's farm. It seems likely the two families were closely acquainted and that Joseph and Mary knew each other since childhood. After their marriage, Joseph bought a piece of land, 128 acres, just west of his father's farm.(4) It was across the road from his wife's family farm and the house where she grew up. Joseph built a house and farmed the land. They lived there for the rest of their entire adult life.
A 1874 land ownership map shows the location of Joseph's farm. His father's farm, where Joseph grew up, was located to the east, where his siblings still owned their share of their parent's farm. The map also shows the location of the family's church, Wesley Chapel M. E. Church, which is where Joseph and Mary were eventually buried.
Joseph and Mary had eight children, all of whom reached adulthood and married. Mary was raised as a Lutheran, but she joined the nearby Wesley Chapel Church, where the Stembels worshiped, in 1855. All eight of her children attended the church as well. Joseph, however, did not join the church until 1911. This was Mary's final wish as she lay on her deathbed.(5) This illustrates Joseph's great affection for his wife of 60 years.
In 1901, Joseph and Mary celebrated their 50th wedding anniversary. All eight of their children attended, as well as most, if not all, of their grandchildren. A family portrait taken that day included 53 family members! Joseph, though seated, appears to be a tall, trim man with full dark hair (at the age of 73) with a white beard 7 or 8 inches long. He has a granddaughter on his lap (see the photo on the home page).
50th Wedding Anniversary (1901). Standing L-R: Malissa, George, John, Mary, Catherine, Albert, William, Addie; Seated: Joseph, Mary.
In 1910 Mary and Joseph again celebrated their wedding anniversary with a huge family reunion. This was their 59th, and last, anniversary together. Joseph and Mary were both 82 years old. Seven of their eight children attended (their oldest, Malissa, had passed away eight years before). A newspaper account of that gathering reported there were 107 guests in attendance. Besides their seven children, there were 38 grandchildren, and 20 great-grandchildren.(6) Mary died six months later.
59th Wedding Anniversary (1910). Standing L-R: Mary, Albert, Catherine, William, Addie; Seated: George, (empty chair for Malissa-deceased), Mary, Joseph, John.
Joseph lived nine more years. During this time two more of his children died, George Oren and Albert. Joseph died in February 1920. He was 91 years old. Both Mary and Joseph are buried in the cemetery at Wesley Chapel. At the time of his death, Joseph was the oldest original settler in Champaign County.(7)
Wesley Chapel Church and cemetery, Wesley Chapel Road, southwest of West Liberty, Ohio.
Joseph and Mary Stembel's tombstone in Wesley Chapel Church's cemetery.
Joseph and Mary Stembel's eight children:
A. Malissa Stembel Emery. (1852-1902). Malissa was born June 7, 1852, near West Liberty. Ohio. Much of what I know about Malissa comes from the 1880 and 1900 census. Malissa married John W. Emery on New Years Day, 1874. John was 24, Malissa 22. They had nine children between the years 1875 and 1892. The first eight were girls; the ninth was a boy.
At the time of the 1880 census they lived on a farm in Harrison Township, Champaign County. Also living with them at the time was a 20 year old servant girl (Nancy Dewey), a 26 year old hired hand (John Egnar from New York) and the hired hand's mother.
In 1900 they still lived on a farm in Harrison Township. They had a hired hand, 20 year old Samuel Jenkins.
John died in 1901 at the age of 50. Malissa died a year later, leaving their children, aged 9, 11, 13, 16, and 18, orphaned. Both are buried in West Liberty's Fairview Cemetery.
John and Malissa Emery's children:
Ida died of cancer on October 26, 1925, just days after her 40th birthday. She is buried in the Bellefontaine City Cemetery. J.O. remarried five years later. In 2009 I received an email from a grandchild (or step-grandchild) of Eva's who shared a few memories of her "Grandma Eva": "Grandma Eva was Aunt Connie's mother ["Connie" was Constance Funderburg]. She was a wonderful grandma. I used to stay with her over weekends sometimes. One time she took me to Thrifty Drug Store for lunch. We had salads, which I have always remembered, a half of head of really large iceberg lettuce with dressing. I didn't think I'd ever be able to eat it all. She also made the best deviled eggs. She used dry mustard in them with some vinegar along with the mayonaise etc. She gave me a lot of sheet music and I sang some of her favorite songs at her funeral. She was really up in the Eas[t]ern Star [the Order of the Eastern Star is a Freemason organisation open to men and women. It was quite popular in the late 19th and early to middle 20th century]."
B. George Oren Stembel (1853-1914). George is the subject of a later chapter.
C. John Virgil Stembel (1855-1937). Joseph and Mary's third child, John, was born on July 23, 1855, near West Liberty, Ohio. He was educated in the public schools of Champaign County.(8) On June 29, 1879, he married Emma Barger. John was almost 24, Emma was 20. They had seven children, two of whom died young.
In the 1900 census, John and Emma were living in Union Township, Champaign County, where John was a Farm Laborer. Three of their children were living with them. In the 1910 census, John, Emma, and their youngest son Willie, were living with John's parents. His father, Joseph, was 81 and had turned the farm over to John.
While it appears John and Emma lived in Champaign County their entire life, a birth announcement in the 1898 Louisville Courier-Journal newspaper announced the birth of a child, gender unspecified, to a John and Emma Stemble, living at 1927 Logan Street. No other known Stembel family fits this birth announcement even though they had never been recorded living anywhere but in Champaign County. Also, a son born just a year earlier was born in Champaign County (though we don't have proof of that fact). Why John and Emma would have been in Louisville for this birth is a mystery. Adding to this mystery is the fact that in the 1900 census, Emma reported she had given birth to 6, not 7, children, 5 of which were still living.
John was a member of the Wesley Chapel Episcopal Methodist Church and the Masonic Lodge.(9) He died at the age of 76 on March 12, 1937; Emma died 5 months later.
John and Emma Stembel's seven children:
D. Mary Louize Stembel Kirkwood. (1857-1951). Mary was born March 2, 1857, near West Liberty, Ohio. In September of 1881 she married Robert Kirkwood, son of David and Mary Kirkwood. Robert was 31 years old, seven years older than Mary. He was a school teacher.
At the time of the 1900 census, Mary and Robert were living on West Beard Street in West Liberty, Ohio. In 1910 they attended Mary and Joseph's 59th anniversary. According to the newspaper account, they were now living in Urbana, Ohio.
Robert died in 1924, at the age of 74. Mary lived 27 more years. Sometime after her husband's death she moved to Columbus, Ohio, where she was living at the time of the 1930 census. She died in 1951 at the age of 94.
Mary and Robert Kirkwood's children:
E. Catherine Eleanor Stembel Duff. (1861-1940). Catherine was born March 9, 1861, near West Liberty, Ohio. She was known as "Ella." Catherine married John K. Duff on December 20, 1885. She was 24. I believe John was three years older than she. Ella and John attended Joseph and Mary's 59th wedding anniversary. The newspaper article indicated they were living in Rushylvania (Logan County), Ohio, at the time. Ella and John had three children, and lived in Logan County, Ohio, their whole lives.
In early censuses, her parents spelled her name with a C, Catherine. It appears that later in life she preferred to spell it with a K, Katherine.
John died April 22, 1936; Catherine lived four more years. She passed away on October 9, 1940, at the age of 79.
Catherine and John Duff's three children:
Edna died in 1946. Joseph died in 1965. Both are buried in Fairview Cemetery, Belle Center, Ohio.
F. Albert Frederick Stemble(12). (1864-1916). Albert Frederick was born January 16, 1864, near West Liberty, Ohio. He was the sixth child born to Joseph and Mary Stembel. Little is known about his childhood. I assume he worked on his father's farm a few miles southwest of West Liberty, and attended school (the 1880 census says he attened school the previous year).
At the age of 18, Albert traveled to Missouri in 1882 with his cousins John and Lafe (Marcellus Lafayette) Stembel (see chapter on Oliver Stembel). John was 30 and Lafe was 26. It appears that Albert's stay in Missouri was brief, since a year later he was back home in Ohio. There he married Nettie Pine in 1883. He may have been contemplating a move to Missouri after his marriage, but he evidently felt conditions were better in Ohio, for that's where he lived the rest of his life.
Albert and Nettie had three children between 1884 and 1888. Sadly, Nettie died in 1892; she was only 29 years old. Albert, a widower at age 28, remarried three years later. His new wife was 21-year-old Olive Frey, known as "Ollie." Albert and Ollie had three more children. The last was born in 1901.
Albert demonstrated his independent spirit by legally changing his surname. Tired of having his name misspelled, Albert declared the 'Stembel' spelling to be old-fashioned (in his words) and legally changed the spelling to 'Stemble.' Since then, Albert's descendants have spelled their last name Stemble.
In the 1910 census, Albert's occupation was recorded as 'Farm Manager.' His farm was located in Harrison Township, Champaign County, Ohio.
Albert died in 1916 at the age of 52. Ollie lived 37 more years. In 1930 she was living with her daughter's family, Marie (Pearl) and Ralph Fretz. Ollie passed away in 1953. Albert and both of his wives are buried in Oak Dale Cemetery in Urbana, Ohio. Nettie was initially buried somewhere else but her remains were reburied in Oak Dale to be with Albert after his death. This move must have met with the approval of Albert's second wife, Ollie.
Albert Stemble's six children (with two wives):
In 1910 26-year-old Ira attended Joseph and Mary's 59th Wedding Anniversary party. Soon after, he married Sadie Herron. They lived in Columbus most of their life, where Ira was a bookkeeper. In 1939, the Columbus City Directory listed his occupation as "Deputy County Clerk of Courts." Ira died in 1942. Sadie died a year later. Both are buried in Mifflin Cemetery, in Gehanna, Ohio. Ira may have spelled his last name 'Stembel' instead of Stembel like the rest of his family. That might be because he lived part of his childhood with his grandparents, who spelled the name -bel. My records show Charles died in 1970 at the age of 83. Alma died in 1975. Both are buried in the Oak Dale Cemetery in Urbana. Ethel and Perry Hess's children:
Dewey died November 26, 1948, in Bellefontaine (Logan County), Ohio, in 1948. Glenna (affectionately called MeMe by her family) died September 30, 1986, in Logan County. Both are buried in Urbana's Oakdale Cemetery.
Dewey and Glenna Stemble's children:
G. William Henry Stembel. (1867-1946). William was born February 27, 1867, near West Liberty, Ohio. He was Joseph and Mary's seventh child. William grew up on his father's farm. Little is known about his childhood.
William married Helen Baldwin sometime around 1885. They had two daughters, Florence and Ruth. Just two months shy of her 31st birthday, Helen died, leaving William with two young children (Ruth was just a year-and-a-half old). Two years later, William married Rhoda Fultz. They had a child: a son named David. David was born in Washington Court House, Ohio (I assume David and Rhoda were living there at the time).
At the time of the 1900 federal census--less than two years after David was born--William and Rhoda had moved to Newport, Kentucky. In 1910, they attended Joseph and Mary's 95th Anniversary. According to the newspaper account, they were still living in Newport.
William died September 26, 1946. He was 79. Rhoda died February 21, 1963, in Cincinnati, at the age of 87.
William Stembel's three children (two wives):
Sometime around 1911, Florence married Louis Woeste. Louis was about 5 years older than Florence. They had two children, Helen (born 1913) and Bonnie (born 1916). They lived in Newport for a time but moved to Cincinnati between 1920 and 1930. Louis died
april 10, 1933. He is buried in St. Mary Cemetery. Florece died 34 years later, on January 3, 1967. Her funeral service was held in Mt. Washington, Kentucky, but her grave was not found on the Find-A-Grave website.
About 1915, Ruth married Earl Crumrine. Earl was a farmer and later a farm implement salesman. They first lived in Covington, Kentucky, where their first child was born, and then moved to Champaign County, Ohio, and later to Cincinnati. They had eight children: Earl, Jr., William, Laura Jane, Mary, George, Bliss, Charles, and Sally. Earl died in 1949. Ruth died in 1982. Both are buried in Highland Cemetery in Fort Mitchell, Kenton County, Kentucky.
On January 20, 1926, Maynard married Dorothy Edwards. They had two children, but the youngest died as an infant. Their oldest child was David, Jr.
Maynard became a steel company executive in Pittsburgh where he and Dorothy lived most of their life. Dorothy died December 17, 1970, in Pittsburgh, and is buried in Homewood Cemetery there. Maynard died 3 years later, on May 21, 1974, in Palm Beach, Florida. He was 75. He is also buried in Pittsburgh's Homewood Cemetery.
David and Dorothy Stembel's child:
David made the Navy his career. He advanced through the ranks, and eventually headed up the Navy's Guided Missile Frigate program. That was David's last assignment. He retired from the Navy in 1985 as a Captain.
David's family lived in Silver Spring, Maryland (just a few miles from this writer). David was an avid gardener; he also served as the local high school's swimming team announcer. David died July 10, 1995, in Silver Spring and is buried in Arlington National Cemetery just a few feet from his distant cousin Adm. Roger Nelson Stembel. Judy continued to live in their Silver Spring home and work as a docent at the Hillwood Museum in nearby Washington, D.C. She now lives with a son.
David and Judy Stembel's three children:
H. Addie Elizabeth Stembel. (1871-1954).
Addie was born June 10, 1871. She was Joseph and Mary's youngest child. Joseph was almost 43 years old when she was born. She was 19 years younger than her oldest sister, Mallisa. According to family historian, Dr. McLean, Addie journeyed to Missouri with her mother in the 1880s to visit her father's brother, Oliver, and his family.(13) It is not clear why Joseph did not join them. It's possible that since Mary lived near the Stembels as a child, she may have been a close friend of Oliver or his wife, Margaret. In any case, it must have been quite a rugged adventure for Addie who was barely in her teens at the time.Addie married Samuel Brubaker in 1892. Addie was 21; Samuel was 27. They had three children, all daughters. Samuel and Addie owned a farm near Milford Center, just east of theChampaign County line. However, sometime in the middle 1930s, after over 40 years of marriage, Addie and Samuel separated.
It seems that Addie was the glue that kept the Stembel families in Ohio together. Her family reunions are legendary. Everyone I have talked to who knew her, speaks of her fondly. Addie died June 19, 1954. She was 83. She is buried in the Oak Dale Cemetery, in Urbana, Ohio.
Addie and Samuel Brubaker's children:
David attended the University of Wisconsin, where he earned a Ph.D. Later, he took a position at Temple University, in Philadelphia, where he taught English Literature. After eight years of teaching, he became acting Dean of Men, and later became an Associate Dean for the College of Liberal Arts at Temple.
Beulah died in 1981, in Medford, New Jersey. She is buried in Oak Dale Cemetery, Urbana, Ohio, not far from her birthplace. David moved in with his son, Guy, in New Jersey. He died May 29, 1988, at the age of 83.
Beulah and David Webster's children:
2. "History of Champaign County, Ohio" Vol II, p. 804. Author and publisher unknown.
3. Ibid. p. 805.
4. Ibid. p. 804.
5. Mary Ziegler Stembel's obituary published on 24 January 1911. Probably from an Urbana OH newspaper. Original in the possession of Miriam Stembel Lawyer, Wheatfield, IN, 1983.
6. "Wedding Anniversary is celebrated by Stembel Family", report of Joseph V.S. and Mary Stembel's 59th Wedding Anniversary. Date of article is unknown (probably June 1910). It is most likely from an Urbana, OH, newspaper.
7. Ibid.
8. "History of Champaign County, Ohio" Vol II, p. 805.
9. Ibid. p. 806.
10. Church records. Urbana Methodist Church, 1896 - 1914. Urbana OH. A copy can be found in the DAR Library.
11. "History of Champaign County, Ohio," p. 805-806. This book gives the names of John's four children who were alive at the time of the writing (ca 1917). James was not listed.
12. This is not a misspelling. Albert had his name legally changed to Stemble.
13. Letter from Dr. W. McLean dated September 14, 1984.
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