[Last updated: 26 July 2003]
Joseph V. S. Stembel
JOSEPH VAN SWEARINGEN STEMBEL (1828-1920)
Joseph was born in Middletown, Maryland, on July 28, 1828. He was the youngest of John and Elenor's 12 children (only six of whom survived to adulthood). Joseph was named after his mother's father, General Joseph Van Swearingen(1) (Van was his middle name rather than part of his surname). When Joseph was about 3 years old his family moved to Ohio, eventually settling on a farm south of West Liberty in Champaign County. Growing up, he attended private subscription schools (free public education did not yet exist).(2)
When Joseph was 22, he married Mary Magdalena Ziegler. Mary was born in Perry County, Ohio, the eldest of eight children. Her parents moved to Champaign County when she was 2 years old.(3) The Ziegler farm was located very close to the Stembel's farm. It seems likely the two families were closely acquainted and that Joseph and Mary knew each other since childhood. After their marriage, Joseph bought a piece of land about one mile west of his father's farm.(4) It was adjacent to the farm of his wife's family. He built a house and farmed the land. They lived there for the rest of their lives.
Joseph and Mary had eight children, all of whom reached adulthood and married. Mary was raised as a Lutheran, but she joined the nearby Wesley Chapel Church, where the Stembels worshiped, in 1855. All eight of her children attended the church as well. Joseph, however, did not join the church until 1911. This was Mary's final wish as she lay on her deathbed.(5) This illustrates Joseph's great affection for his wife of 60 years.
In 1901, Joseph and Mary celebrated their 50th wedding anniversary. All eight of their children attended, as well as most, if not all, of their grandchildren. A family portrait taken that day included 53 family members! Joseph, though seated, appears to be a tall, trim man with full dark hair (at the age of 73!) with a white beard 7 or 8 inches long. He has a granddaughter on his lap.
In 1910 Mary and Joseph again celebrated their wedding anniversary with a huge family reunion. This was their 59th, and last, anniversary together. Joseph and Mary were both 82 years old. Seven of their eight children attended (their oldest, Malissa, had passed away eight years before). A newspaper account of that gathering reported there were 107 guests in attendance. Besides their seven children, there were 38 grandchildren, and 20 great-grandchildren.(6) Mary died six months later.
Joseph lived nine more years. During this time two more of his children died, George Oren and Albert. Joseph died in February 1920. He was 91 years old. Both Mary and Joseph are buried in the cemetery at Wesley Chapel. At the time of his death, Joseph was the oldest original settler in Champaign County.(7)
Joseph and Mary's eight children:
A. Malissa (1852-1902). Malissa was born June 7, 1852, near West Liberty. Ohio. Much of what I know about Malissa comes from the 1880 and 1900 census. Malissa married John W. Emery on New Years Day, 1874. John was 24, Malissa 22. They had nine children between the years 1875 and 1892. The first eight were girls; the ninth was a boy.
At the time of the 1880 census they lived on a farm in Harrison Township, Champaign County. Also living with them at the time was a 20 year old servant girl (Nancy Dewey), a 26 year old hired hand (John Egnar from New York) and the hired hand's mother.
In 1900 they still lived on a farm in Harrison Township. They hade a hired hand, 20 year old Samuel Jenkins.
John died in 1901 at the age of 50. Malissa died a year later, leaving children aged 9, 11, 13, 16, and 18 still living at home. I don't know who took them in.
John and Malissa's children:
5. Grace M. Grace was born in October of 1883. Sometime around 1902 she married Arthur Hanger. They attended Joseph and Mary's 59th anniversary reunion in 1910. According to the newspaper account, they lived in West Liberty, Ohio, at the time.Grace and Arthur had two children listed in the 1910 census: Henry and Bernice. I believe they had one more child, William, born after the census.
The 1910 census shows two children, Emery and Kirby. More children may have been born in the years following the census. Ida died about 1825.
B. George Oren (1853-1914). George is the subject of a later chapter.
C. John Virgil (1855-1937). Joseph and Mary's third child, John, was born on July 23, 1855, near West Liberty. He was educated in the public schools of Champaign County.(8) On June 29, 1879, he married Emma Barger. John was almost 24, Emma was 20. They had six children, one of whom died at the age of 17.
I have not been able to find John and Emma in the 1880 census records (the year after they married). In the 1900 census, I found them in Union Township, Champaign County, where John was a Farm Laborer. Three of their children were living with them. In the 1910 census, John, Emma, and their youngest son Willie, were living with Joseph and Mary. Joseph was 81 and had turned the farm over to John.
John was a member of the Wesley Chapel Episcopal Methodist Church and the Masonic Lodge.(9) John died at the age of 76 on March 12, 1937; Emma died 5 months later.
John and Emma's six children:
Maudie and Gottlieb lived in Spring Hill, Ohio. They, too, also attended Mary and Joseph's wedding anniversary in 1910.
D. Mary Louize (1857-1951). Mary was born March 2, 1857, near West Liberty. In September of 1881 she married Robert Kirkwood, son of David and Mary Kirkwood. Robert was 31 years old, seven years older than Mary. He was a school teacher.
At the time of the 1900 census, Mary and Robert were living on West Beard Street in West Liberty, Ohio. In 1910 they attended Mary and Joseph's 59th anniversary. According to the newspaper account, they were now living in Urbana, Ohio.
Robert died in 1924, at the age of 74. Mary lived 27 more years. She died in 1951. She was 94 years old.
Mary and Robert Kirkwood's children:
E. Catherine Eleanor (1861-1940). Catherine was born March 9, 1861, near West Liberty. She was also known as "Ella." Catherine married John K. Duff on December 20, 1885. She was 24. I believe John was three years older than she. Catherine and John attended Joseph and Mary's 59th wedding anniversary. The newspaper article indicated they were living in Rushylvania (Logan County), Ohio.
John died April 22, 1936; Catherine lived four more years. She passed away on October 9, 1940, at the age of 79.
Catherine and John Duff's three known children:
F. Albert Frederick (1864-1916). Albert is the subject of a later chapter.
G. William Henry (1867-1946). William was born February 27, 1867, near West Liberty. He was Joseph and Mary's seventh child. William grew up on his father's farm. Little is known about his childhood.
William married Helen Baldwin sometime around 1885. They had two daughters, Florence and Ruth. Just two months shy of her 31st birthday, Helen died, leaving William with two young children (Ruth was just a year-and-a-half old). Two years later, William married Rhoda Fultz. They had a child: a son named David. David was born in Washington Court House, Ohio (I assume David and Rhoda were living there at the time).
At the time of the 1900 federal census--less than two years after David was born--William and Rhoda were living in Newport, Kentucky. In 1910, they attended Joseph and Mary's 95th Anniversary. According to the newspaper account, they were still living in Newport.
William died September 26, 1946, in Pittsburgh. I don't know whether Rhoda was still living at the time of Williams death.
William Stembel's three children:
Florence married Louis Woeste. They had two children, Helen and Bonnie.
Ruth married Earl Crumrine. They had eight children: Earl, Jr., William, Jane, Mary, George, Sally, Charles, and Bliss.
I believe David and Dorothy lived in Pittsburgh most of their life. Dorothy died December 17, 1970. David died 3½ years later, on May 21, 1974.
David and Dorothy's child:
David made the Navy his career. He advanced through the ranks, and toward the end of his career was given responsibility for the Navy's Guided Missile Frigate program. David retired from the Navy in 1985.
David and Judy lived in Silver Spring, just a few miles from this writer. David was an avid gardener; he also served as the local high school's swimming team announcer. In 1995 he died of complications of Crohn's Disease. Judy still lives in their Silver Spring home and works as a docent at the Hillwood Museum in nearby Washington, D.C.
David and Judy's three children:
H. Addie Elizabeth (1871-1954). Addie is the subject of a later chapter.
2. "History of Champaign County, Ohio" Vol II, p. 804. Author and publisher unknown.
3. Ibid. p. 805.
4. Ibid. p. 804.
5. Mary Ziegler Stembel's obituary published on 24 January 1911. Probably from an Urbana OH newspaper. Original in the possession of Miriam Stembel Lawyer, Wheatfield, IN, 1983.
6. "Wedding Anniversary is celebrated by Stembel Family", report of Joseph V.S. and Mary Stembel's 59th Wedding Anniversary. Date of article is unknown (probably June 1910). It is most likely from an Urbana, OH, newspaper.
7. Ibid.
8. "History of Champaign County, Ohio" Vol II, p. 805.
9. Ibid. p. 806.
10. Church records. Urbana Methodist Church, 1896 - 1914. Urbana OH. A copy can be found in the DAR Library.
11. "History of Champaign County, Ohio," p. 805-806. This book gives the names of John's four children who were alive at the time of the writing (ca 1917). James was not listed.